My Top 10

In honor of the new year and all those annoying top 10 lists everyone provides, I thought I would give you all something a little different than usual: a personal list. The following are, in order, my favorite fucking activities:

10. Biting - There's something about the feeling of teeth sinking into me or mine sinking into another person..... try it. It's hot and it leaves lots of marks.

9. Noises - Moans and groans and growls, oh my ;)

8. Choking - There's a complete feeling of helplessness when there are hands around my neck and and mouth locked over mine. You resort to a sort of delicious desperation where your body wants to escape but wants to stay.

7. Rimming - If you've never felt a tongue in/around/near your asshole, you're missing out. It's so sensitive and wet, especially when you play with the surrounding area at the same time.

6. Pressure/force - I combined these into one because they're really related. Being held down into a bed, yanked around, squeezed tightly - it's that amount of control another person can exercise over you with their body, and it's incredible the amount of power that holds.

5. Clit Stimulation - I feel like this would be fairly obvious, but yes, it lies in my top 5. It's really necessary for any female sexual experience and enhances anything (let me repeat: ANYTHING) that happens during sex, or even messing around, for a woman. Plus, it'll make her orgasm. And how can you beat that?

4. Kissing - It's cliche, I know, but it's true. If you've ever encountered a good kisser, you know what I'm talking about. If not, let me introduce myself ;)

3. G-Spot Stimulation - There's a lot of stuff under this category, but the crucial ones are riding (the position, of course) and squirting. It's so deep and fulfilling, plus you can make me squirt. Congrats. :) I love giving this, too.... Seeing the look on a girl's face when I hit the spot and I know she feels it. Incredible.

2. Cocksucking - Have you ever had a cock in your mouth? The power of it if you're in control, the pure helplessness if you're not... Knowing that you're driving him wild just because you have his sex inside you. Segments of this that are crucial: ball-licking (because it's fun and you need to do this to actually do a blow job right for most guys) and deepthroating (because there's really nothing better than a messy, spitty blow job).

1. Dirty Talk - I feel like you might be disappointed that this ranks in at number one, but no matter what I'm doing, if someone walks up to me and starts telling me what they want to do to me or telling me how much of a slut they think I am, I'm turned on. I can't help it. And I can do this at any hour, of any day, in any form: verbal, hand-written, typed up online.... There's something very erotic putting your desires for another person into words instead of keeping it to yourself or just acting them out. Adds a little bit of sexual tension, and that's really always a lot of fun. ;)

I encourage you to go on your own little journey of self-discovery and come up with a list. Top 10, Top 5, Top 3... doesn't matter. But it's a lot of fun and it helps you get to know yourself better. It might make you realize your sex life is dull, or that you simply haven't found that thing that does it for you yet. No matter what, you'll be glad you made the list.

Happy Fucking New Year. :)