What you're thinking of now is probably something out of a bad porno: a guy forcing his cock way down a girl's throat and seeing her choke, gag, and spit as a result.
Sounds unpleasant, especially if you're the one choking.
But it really shouldn't be.
Deep throating is the act of taking a man's penis deep into the mouth until the lips meet the testicles. Most guys like this because the feeling is much like being "balls deep" into a vagina or anus. It's total sensory overload because the entire shaft is inserted into the mouth. It's hot and wet and tight and they love it.
The key with deep throating is getting past the gag reflex.
Luckily, there's a lot you can do to accomplish this besides avoiding the act all together (because where's the fun in that?).
Before anything happens, you must RELAX. As with all things sexual, nothing is going to happen if you're all worked up.
Tips and Tricks
1. Take it slow. Warm up with some licking and sucking first. Don't rush right into shoving the cock down your throat because you're almost guaranteed to gag, and gag hard. So slow down. Take your time. Maybe turn it into a game and tease him with slowly working it in deeper and deeper until you're ready.
2. Lube! If you want to use actual lube, great. Flavored lube is another good choice because a lot of times it actually tastes better. The classic option is saliva. Don't be afraid to let those spit glands work because the more lubed-up that dick is, the easier it's going to slide and the better it's going to feel.
3. Keep breathing. Through your nose. Calm and steady breathing is a great weapon against your gag reflex.
4. Train your gag reflex. The best way to do this is by practice. When you're ready, allow the penis to slide along your tongue to the back of your throat. When you feel like you're going to gag, stop and let it rest there for a bit before pulling out out again. Repeat this enough and you'll defeat your gag reflex.
5. Change up positions. Try for what feels the most comfortable. Typically, the chin up will be the easiest, like if you're on top or with your head hanging off the edge of the bed, but other positions (like being on your side) can also work. See what works the best for you and stick with that until you gain more experience.
Trivia Tidbits
1. Humming while you work - highly pleasurable for the man - can quiet the gag reflex.
2. Your gag reflex is strongest during the morning, so until you tame it, definitely don't tackle morning wood.
3. One-third of the population doesn't even have a gag reflex. Maybe you're among them?
A Note for the Guys
Once your partner and you get started on this, you'll love it, I'm sure. It's so tight and massaging for the head and shaft, plus it's noisy because of the sucking and throat muscles working away. And it's highly visual. You'll be able to see your cock disappear completely into your partner's mouth.
Delicious, right?
But please be careful. When your partner first starts out, THEY must be in control. DO NOT try to force anything. Let your partner go at their own pace. When they gain experience, you can pick up the speed and take more control, get a little more aggressive. Until that time comes, lie back and just let your partner work.
Final Notes
This is a real sexual time investment, so if you start this project, be ready to work. The payoff will be huge, and certainly worth it, so I encourage you to labor away.
It's sexy. It's sensational. And it's satisfying. So go for it. You got this. Enjoy yourself. ;)
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