Incorporating Kink

Just think about blindfolding your lover, or dripping hot candle wax on them. Or maybe even a rougher than usual bite, or a quick smack on the ass.

All that little "I like it rough" stuff, you know. That's kink.

And you know what's beautiful about kink? It's completely different than the usual vanilla bump and grind. Why wouldn't you incorporate a little extra of the kinky stuff into your general routine?

Plus, it's a nice way to spice things up. There are infinite acts that can be just as sexual/sensual/pleasurable as directly stimulating the genitals.

Before you get into any of these things, you must have an open mind, some extra time, and an inclination to break away from the vanilla (meaning standard penis in the vagina-status sex).

Some things to get your imagination going:

• candle wax
• ice cubes
• a hand around the neck
• feather
• blindfolds
• scarves around the wrists
• pulling hair
• biting
• spanking

Trust me, the list continues. And depending on how kinky you get, there's definitely more to get into.

Just let those creative - and other - juices flow. ;)