The Art of Fantasy

Just lean back and close your eyes and think of the hottest little sex scene you can. If you're drawing a blank, you're not alone. If your fantasy seems to fall short of your own internal expectations, you're also not alone. If you're working on the best damn fantasy that ever existed, complete with clowns, lubed up slip n' slides and a bowling alley, congrats on your imagination.

Fo those of you who aren't quite at that last level yet, you're going to be okay because thinking up the craziest shit imaginable is not at all what fantasizing is about. It's not even about what you actually want to experience, necessarily.

Fantasizing is about exercising your imagination and seeing what you can come up with. It's about seeing what turns you on and experiencing that within your mind. The sexiest of your own personal brand of sexy.

For example:

• a lesbian giving herself over to a man
• fucking your boss or secretary
• brother/sister/father/daughter, aunt/nephew, or other incest scenarios
• a brutal rape
• tying someone down and beating them
• a romantic candlelight dinner that turns into a romantic fuckfest

And any way you slice it, fantasizing is healthy. It's good to expand your imagination and add a little spice to your sex life (solo or partnered). it makes masturbation more fun. It provides fuel for role play in partner sex. It provides passion, desire, and safety, too, because YOU have all the control to make the scenario run as you like.

Just think of whatever tickles your fancy. They're all very valid fantasies. If it gets you wet, or gets you hard, go with it. Explore those deepest, darkest little sexual thoughts. Safely.

Oh, and did I mention it's THE PERFECT REMEDY for passing time? Try it next time you're on a break from work or bored as hell in class. You might be surprised at what your imagination comes up with. ;)